Listening and speaking often seem like they should be equally difficult -or easy- but anyone learning a language knows that’s not quite true. Speaking, in particular, tends to feel a lot trickier than it looks.
And you’ve probably experienced this yourself. Maybe you’re watching a Spanish show and suddenly realize, Hey, I’m understanding this without subtitles! That’s a huge win! But then, someone asks you to explain what the show was about in Spanish and suddenly your mind goes completely blank.
Don’t feel bad about it! Think of it like this: it’s easier to watch a movie than it is to act in one. The same goes for language, it’s much easier to recognize sounds and meanings after repeated exposure than it is to produce those sounds and meanings on the spot.
That’s exactly what we’re diving into today: why we often end up being great listeners, but not-so-great speakers, and what you can do about it.
So you are not speaking just because. There could be many reasons why this is happening.
Let’s see what these might be:
It’s like watching cooking videos but never actually stepping into the kitchen. You understand what’s going on, but when it’s time to cook (aka speak), you freeze. Speaking is a different skill entirely. Your brain needs to get used to pulling up words and stringing them together in real-time. That only happens when you actually speak.
Here’s how you can train your brain to actually speak Spanish with confidence. You can start now!
It might feel a little silly at first (you’ll feel like you’re doing karaoke without the music), but it works. You’re training your brain to process Spanish in real time, without running it through your internal English-to-Spanish Google Translate. Over time, your mouth starts to know how Spanish sounds and feels, and your sentences flow more naturally.
Pro tip: Use short clips from shows, interviews, or YouTube. The goal isn’t perfection, it’s fluency in rhythm and sound.
You can talk to your pet, your plants, your reflection in the mirror, or whoever will listen (or pretend to). The idea is to get your brain used to pulling up words and forming sentences on the fly. And hey, your dog definitely won’t correct your grammar.
This low-pressure practice adds up. You’re building fluency brick by brick, one mini monologue at a time.
Introductions: Me llamo Ana. ¿Y tú?
Ordering food: Quisiera un café con leche, por favor.
Talking about your day: Hoy trabajé, hice ejercicio y vi una serie en Netflix.
These conversations might seem simple, but mastering them builds confidence, and confidence leads to more speaking. It’s like building a muscle. You don’t start with the 100 lb weights. You start with the light ones and work your way up.
Not sure where to start? Try:
And don’t worry if you mess up. A good speaking partner knows you’re learning and will celebrate your efforts, not judge your mistakes.
And that’s exactly what you should do. Forget the perfect sentence. Focus on getting your point across. You can clean it up later.
The more you speak, the less you'll freeze. The less you freeze, the more you'll speak. It’s a beautiful, confidence-boosting cycle.
If you want to speak Spanish naturally, you’ve got to think in Spanish. And to do that, you need to surround your brain with so much Spanish that it doesn’t really have a choice.
Here’s how to sneak Spanish into your everyday life without making it feel like homework:
The truth is, the more you flood your brain with Spanish, the less effort it takes to think in Spanish. And once your brain starts thinking in Spanish, speaking it becomes way easier.
That being said, I hope this post helped you understand why your brain works this way, and more importantly, how to start speaking Spanish with more confidence.
I know it can be frustrating when you understand a lot but still feel blocked when it's time to talk. But that “I can understand but I can’t speak” phase? It’s totally normal. The key is to keep going, try the speaking Spanish tips we covered, and work on simple strategies to fix your speaking block in Spanish.
Trust me, you’re much closer to fluency than you think. One step, one sentence, one conversation at a time.
You’ve got this.