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How to stay motivated when learning Spanish becomes difficult?

Written by María Flores | May 6, 2025 3:13:48 PM

Have you ever felt that spark and excitement to learn Spanish? You imagine yourself taking daily classes, speaking fluently in just a few months, and finally understanding everything Bad Bunny says in his songs.

But then, life happens. After a few classes, the dream gets pushed aside. Work gets busy, your schedule fills up, and your progress doesn’t feel as fast as you hoped. I get it. You're not alone! this happens to me and to so many other language learners, too.

But don’t worry! That initial spark doesn’t have to fade. We’ve got tips to help you not abandon Spanish and carry your dream through to the finish.

Motivation is the key

Motivation and consistency are the real keys to mastering any challenge.  A lot of people think success comes down to talent or being naturally good at something, but honestly, that’s not the case. Everything is learnable. Even if you start with zero talent, if you stay motivated and keep showing up, you can achieve amazing things.

And here’s something important: motivation isn’t something you’re either born with or not, you can actually create it. I really want to highlight that. You can always spark motivation, but it takes the right mindset and some smart strategies. 

Let’s take a look at a few of those:

  • Remember your reasons

Whenever you feel lost or disconnected, take a moment to remember why you started this journey. Was it for work? Travel? To connect with people on a deeper level? Whatever your reason is, it’s valid, and it matters. Even if it’s simply a hobby, that’s more than enough. This is your personal challenge, your goal. Own it. You’ve got this!

Try writing down your reasons for learning Spanish and keep them somewhere you can easily see. Whenever your motivation dips, read them again. Remind yourself why this matters to you because that reminder can be the push you need to keep going.

 

  • Focus on small wins

We often get caught up in celebrating the big wins and overlook the little steps that led us there. Maybe you're not fluent yet, but you learned a new word and used it in a real conversation for the first time, that’s pretty special, isn’t it? Those small moments add up, and before you know it, they lead to huge progress, even if you don’t see it just yet. Every little step matters.

Here are some examples to celebrate:

  • Understanding a sentence without translating.
  • Holding a short conversation, even with mistakes.
  • Watching a show in Spanish and recognizing words.

The more you acknowledge these small victories, the more motivated you’ll stay.

 

  • Make it Fun

If you’re learning Spanish because you have to, maybe for work or other obligations, it’s easy to lose connection with it. Nobody likes doing something they feel forced into. I totally get it, sometimes life just demands it, even if it’s not something you’re excited about.

But here’s the trick: make peace with it and befriend it. Instead of focusing on how tough it feels or how behind you are, try to see the benefits.

Find the fun in it!

  • Listen to Spanish music (trust me, Latin American music is amazing to dance while cooking!).
  • Watch Spanish shows (Argentina has some fantastic comedy!).
  • Or, change your phone settings to Spanish, so you’re surrounded by it throughout the day. Little things like these can help you enjoy the process and connect with Spanish in a fun way.

The more Spanish is woven into your daily life, the less effort it feels like.

 

  • Stop obsessing over perfection

We all want to do things as perfectly as possible, but the truth is, those high expectations can often lead to frustration.

It’s easy to compare ourselves to others, especially to people who are already fluent in the language (even native speakers). But it’s important to remember: you’re not being fair to yourself. Everyone’s journey is different, and comparing your progress to someone else’s can be discouraging. For example, someone who grew up surrounded by Hispanic relatives might have better pronunciation than you, and there’s a simple reason for that. They've been subconsciously listening to the language for years.

Maybe your situation is the complete opposite. Perhaps you haven’t been around native speakers and haven't had much exposure to the language, so it’s totally normal that your accent and pronunciation might take a bit more time to develop.

This is just one example, there are so many factors to consider before comparing yourself to others because we all learn in different ways.

Making mistakes is a natural part of learning. After all, how could we improve if we don’t make a few missteps along the way? If you ever feel silly, just remember that your tutors, coaches, and everyone else involved in your learning journey know exactly where you’re at, and they’re there to support you. Their goal is to help you grow and build the confidence you need to keep going.

 


  • Find a learning community

Learning a new language on your own can sometimes feel lonely and overwhelming, but you don’t have to go through it alone. If you find yourself struggling to stay motivated or unsure of your progress, try reaching out and connecting with others who share your passion.

Consider joining a language exchange where you can practice with native speakers, becoming part of an online Spanish-learning community, or even working with a tutor who can guide and encourage you along the way. When you surround yourself with people who understand your journey and support your growth, the experience becomes not only more effective but also much more enjoyable. You're not just learning a language; you're building connections.

 

  • Be Kind to Yourself (It’s a Journey, Not a Race)

Learning Spanish -or any language- isn’t a straight path. Some days you’ll feel confident and excited, and other days it might feel like nothing is sticking. That’s completely normal. Some days you’ll feel confident and excited, and other days it might feel like nothing is sticking. That’s completely normal.

Everyone goes through phases where progress seems to slow down or feels stuck, even though you're still working hard. It doesn’t mean you’re failing, it just means you're human.

Instead of being hard on yourself when things feel slow or difficult, take a moment to recognize how far you’ve already come. Think about where you started and the progress you've made, even if it feels small. Progress in language learning often happens quietly, in the background, and it’s only when you look back that you realize how much you’ve grown.

Most importantly, remember that consistency is what matters, not perfection. Showing up, even on tough days, is what keeps the momentum going. So be gentle with yourself, celebrate the effort you’re putting in, and trust that every step -no matter how small- is bringing you closer to fluency.

That’s all for today! Just remember, you’re not alone in this journey. Here at WorldsAcross, we listen to your frustrations and look for real, supportive solutions so your Spanish can become everything you’ve dreamed of.

Have you ever felt disconnected from your Spanish learning? How did you find your way back? We’d love to hear your story, share it with us!